STRUGGLE & CHALLENGES

 It was more than 23 years ago Raj had left all of us in the age of 35.  He had left his father, mother, brother, wife Madhu, son & younger daughter. Although he was post graduate but for his living he was doing farming of flowers, vegetables & stage decoration. 

Fencing of the field were doing by the people. Some were using barbed wire and some were electric wire to protect their field from cattles. It was function in brother in law's house, everyone was getting ready to go there. Raj had arranged electric wire in his field and before go to brother in law's house he had decided to collect wire. Light was not on that time but very soon when Raj was collecting the wires light had make him uncomfortable and current had put him down. His uncle was there, he cried and ran near to Raj but he couldn't. Raj was no more bacause of electric current. 

Everyone was crying but no one can revive him. A little carelessness took his life. After Raj, his wife struggled too much, not only she has educated her son and daughter but also made them eligible for govt job as a Lekhpal and daughter was persuing PhD in department of statistics in BHU. Although relatives had tried for second marriage of Raj's wife with his younger brother ( Prakash ) but Prakash had denied this proposal. He was accountant in a university. Madhu has joined as a assistant in Anganwadi. 

Her kids had never seen their childhood because of tragedy. They had worked in the field of flowers and vegetables. Very little,  people had find him in the playground.

Akshat was the name of her son & daughter was Neelima. Now after marriage of Akshat relatives are asking for marriage of Neelima. But she doesn't want any disturbance in her research. That's why she has refused all proposal.

But as a mother Madhu has finally decided for marriage of her daughter. And she has arranged her daughter marriage with a Assistant Professor. Now she is happy by fulfilling her all responsibilities. She always pray to God and express her sincere gratitude to the God for all these happiness. 

Although she has faced a lots of challenges in upbringing of her children after her husband but now she is happy at this platform. As a relative I hv observed her life, full of challenges and problems. But now I can say thank you so much God for your blessings.

Your's

 J P Maurya 

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