DESTINY

Jitin was in confusion during his teaching training, as he had qualified for JRF ( ICMR ). He was unable to decide which one is good, either go for PhD or for govt teaching job in UP Basic Education. Finally he decided and went to his HOD Biochemistry BHU with his problems. She suggests him for teaching job after listening his family background and uncertainties in govt job. She told him u can do PHd anytime but if you will miss govt job then it will be difficult. As a result he joined teaching job and doing well. 

On the other hand Arnav was clear for his job in higher education. It was his future planning. As a result when he had qualified for JRF ( CSIR ) during his teaching training, he quit his training and joined PhD program in BHU. Although his grandfather had discussed with me (Jitendra ) which one is better? I had suggested for PHd. Finally, after his PhD from Department of Zoology in BHU Arnav left India and went USA ( Philadelphia ) for Post Doctoral Fellowship. And when returned from there he got opportunity to join department of Zoology, BHU as a Asst. Professor. We were very happy for Arnav grand success. It was same room when Arnav was doing his PhD in BHU, only chair was changed. He is doing very well at there. 

Although, both were in the same time frame, same training and perhaps got opportunity in the same direction, but destiny has decided different things for both of them, one is settled in basic education and other is in higher education. Both are serving to the society with their different platform.



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